Here are a few shots of what I hope is the the end of the ice age in Regina taken two days ago to accompany my rant.
I've never been one to hide my age or to shy away from admitting that I'm whatever age. Until the last few years. There is a phenomenon going on that makes me distinctly uncomfortable and, I believe, is affecting my studio work.
What's that? you may ask.
Simple, it's people saying, "You can't expect to do as much, you're getting old." or "You need to get someone else to (shovel, mow, clean, whatever) because you're getting old." or "Of course you hurt, you're getting old." or "You're not as young as you used to be." or "For someone your age...."
These comments are so discouraging, put downs even. They make me feel like life is almost over when, in fact, I've got lots of years, decades even, left to live. I'm not even a senior citizen in many situations. In some, the senior status starts at 50, in others it doesn't kick in until 65. Well, I'm in that spectrum, but I'm not old.
The thing is, if you say these things to others, you are telling them to just give up, buy a rocker and wait for the undertaker. If you say them to yourself, you're telling yourself there's no point to trying. This is 2013, and 70 isn't old any more, let alone the 50's and 60's. I have friends in their 80's who are young. My grandfather was young at 100.
I realized the other day, as I was avoiding my studio, that I was thinking that there isn't much point in making art as no one wants to see the images created by an old woman who only has (maybe) a few creative years left in her. BAM! I felt like I'd walked into a wall and immediately set out to find where that idea had come from. And the answer is--from well meaning, but not very supportive comments about being old.
Next time you find yourself about to say something about the limitations of age, whether to yourself or someone else, STOP! Remember Thumper in the movie "Bambi." He said, If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all.